The boundaries between right and wrong often blur in today’s world. Many actions that are sins, are now taken casually. This trend is dangerous, as it leads to the normalization of behaviors that distance us from Allah’s guidance. Below, we explore 10 sins Muslims overlook in their daily lives, which result in the decline of society, and becoming a burden in the hereafter.
10 Sins Muslims Overlook in their Daily Lives
1. Backbiting (Gheebah)
Backbiting has become so embedded in daily conversations that many people don’t even realize when they’re doing it. Whether it’s discussing someone’s shortcomings, criticizing their actions, or making fun of their habits, this sin is often masked (justified) as ‘casual’ talk, ‘concern’ or for betterment.
- Why it’s taken casually: People justify it by saying, “I’m just telling the truth,” or “It’s not a big deal; they won’t find out.” Gossip is seen as a harmless way to bond with others.
- Islamic reminder: The Qur’an explicitly warns against backbiting, comparing it to eating the flesh of a dead brother (Quran 49:12). This vivid analogy highlights the severity of the sin.
- What to do: The next time you feel the urge to discuss someone negatively, pause and reflect. It is better to leave a place, group, or gathering to save yourself from this grave sin. Practicing mindfulness in speech can also help you avoid falling into this trap.
2. Lying (Kadhib)
From exaggerating the truth to little white lies, dishonesty has become socially acceptable. Lying is seen as a means to avoid conflict or gain advantage, but this behavior contradicts the moral integrity Islam demands.
Society normalizes lying as part of everyday interactions, whether in business, relationships, or even on social media. People view it as a harmless way to avoid problems or make life smoother. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) warned against lying, stating:
"Truthfulness leads to righteousness, and righteousness leads to Paradise. And a man keeps on telling the truth until he becomes a truthful person. Falsehood leads to Al-Fajur (i.e. wickedness, evil-doing), and Al-Fajur (wickedness) leads to the (Hell) Fire, and a man may keep on telling lies till he is written before Allah, a liar.” (Sahih Bukhari).
What to do: Strive to be truthful in all situations, even if the truth is difficult. Being honest is the hallmark of desired Islamic character.
3. Gossiping (Namimah)
Gossip spreads like wildfire, often cloaked in the guise of concern or “venting.” However, Islam strictly forbids namimah – spreading information (especially unverified) that harms or sows discord between people.
- Why it’s taken casually: Gossip is now seen as part of social interaction. Whether it’s among friends or co-workers, it’s rare to find a group where gossip doesn’t occur. It’s often viewed as entertainment.
- Islamic reminder: The Prophet (PBUH) said that a person who spreads malicious gossip will not enter Paradise (Ibn Majah).
- What to do: Avoid gatherings that encourage gossip and refrain from sharing personal details of others. Focus on meaningful conversations that foster positive connections.
4. Envy (Hasad)
In a world driven by materialism and competition, envy has become a normalized emotion. People may not openly admit to being jealous, but the effects of envy—resentment, bitterness, and comparison—are visible in everyday interactions.
- Why it’s taken casually: Social media amplifies envy, as people constantly compare themselves to others. Instead of being seen as a sin, envy is often brushed off as human nature.
- Islamic reminder: The Prophet (PBUH) said, “Do not envy one another” (Jami al Tirmidhi). Envy leads to dissatisfaction with Allah’s decree and can harm relationships.
- What to do: Combat envy by practicing gratitude and making dua for others. When you see someone blessed, remind yourself that Allah’s provision is infinite.
5. Breaking Promises
People make promises easily, whether in business or personal relationships, but many don’t take their promises seriously. Breaking a promise is seen as a minor issue these days, often justified by circumstances.
- Why it’s taken casually: Many believe that promises can be broken as long as there’s an excuse, or they never truly intend to keep them from the start.
- Islamic reminder: Breaking promises is a trait of the hypocrite, as described by the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in a famous hadith (Sahih Bukhari). It not only harms trust but also disrupts the social fabric.
- What to do: Only make promises you can fulfill, and if something changes, be transparent and seek forgiveness from the person affected. Honoring your word is an essential part of integrity.
6. Cheating in Routine Affairs
In today’s competitive world, cheating in our daily affairs, school and business, such as overpricing, cutting corners, or misrepresenting goods, is often justified by the need to stay ahead in the market. However, in Islam, such acts are not only unethical but sinful.
- Why it’s taken casually: Many view business as a game of survival where “everyone does it,” thus normalizing dishonesty in transactions. Students often see it as a necessary evil for success.
- Islamic reminder: Allah warns against cheating in trade, stating that those who do so will face severe punishment (Qur’an 83:1-3).
- What to do: Conduct your business with honesty and transparency, even when it’s difficult. Trust in Allah’s provision (rizq) and avoid engaging in deceptive practices.
7. Disrespecting Parents
Respect for parents is a cornerstone of Islamic ethics. Yet in today’s culture of independence and individualism, many young people neglect their parents, dismiss their advice, or even speak harshly to them.
- Why it’s taken casually: Modern society places a strong emphasis on personal freedom and self-sufficiency, sometimes to the detriment of family bonds. Disrespecting parents is often seen as asserting independence.
- Islamic reminder: The Qur’an repeatedly commands believers to honor their parents, especially as they age (Qur’an 17:23). Neglecting or disrespecting them is a serious sin.
- What to do: Prioritize your parents’ well-being, regularly visit them, and ensure that your speech and actions reflect the respect they are due, regardless of how independent you become.
8. Engaging in Riba (Interest/Usury)
Riba has permeated every facet of modern financial systems, making it difficult for many to avoid. Whether through loans, mortgages, or savings accounts, many Muslims are unknowingly or knowingly involved in interest-based transactions.
- Why it’s taken casually: Many believe it’s impossible to avoid riba in today’s economy, seeing it as a necessity for owning homes or running businesses. Some even rationalize it by saying it’s “just how the system works.”
- Islamic reminder: Allah has declared war on those who engage in riba (Qur’an 2:275-279). Its harmful effects extend beyond individual transactions, corrupting entire economic systems.
- What to do: Seek halal alternatives and consult with knowledgeable scholars on how to navigate financial matters while adhering to Islamic principles.
9. Immodesty (Exposing the Awrah) and Free Mixing
Modesty is a defining characteristic of a Muslim’s behavior, yet today’s fashion trends often encourage the opposite. Both men and women have become desensitized to wearing clothes that expose their “awrah”, as modesty is seen as “outdated”. The same includes free mixing with opposite sex and looking/ talking to a non-mehram.
- Why it’s taken casually: The push for self-expression and freedom of choice in clothing leads many to overlook Islamic guidelines on modesty. Clothing that reveals the body is often seen as “trendy” rather than sinful. Moreover, free mixing has become so common now, that it doesn’t feels wrong.
- Islamic reminder: The Prophet (PBUH) emphasized the importance of modesty as part of faith (Sunan Nasai). Covering the awrah is not only about outer appearance but also about protecting one’s dignity.
- What to do: Align your wardrobe choices with Islamic guidelines, remembering that modesty is a form of worship and an expression of gratitude for the body Allah has given you.
10. Neglecting or Delaying the Salah (Prayer)
Salah is the foundation of a Muslim’s faith, yet it is often the first act of worship that is compromised due to busy schedules, social obligations, or simply out of laziness. Many people delay or skip prayers, not fully understanding the severity of this sin.
- Why it’s taken casually: With work, social activities, and other commitments taking priority, prayer is often seen as flexible or negotiable. Some delay it thinking they’ll make up for it later, while others skip it entirely without remorse.
- Islamic reminder: Salah is the first thing we will be held accountable for on the Day of Judgment (Tirmidhi). Its importance cannot be overstated.
- What to do: Schedule your day around salah times and use apps or reminders to help you stay punctual. Take small breaks from study or work to offer salah at its correct time. Prioritizing prayer will not only help you spiritually but also bring barakah (blessings) into your daily life.
Conclusion
The normalization of these sins reflects a broader trend of moral laxity in modern society. As Muslims, it’s crucial to remain vigilant and self-aware, ensuring that our actions align with Islamic teachings, even when society tells us otherwise. By recognizing these sins and actively working to avoid them, we can stay on the path of righteousness and draw closer to Allah. Let’s strive to purify our hearts and habits and encourage others to do the same.
